Back on My Blog Ish Folks

What's happenin people?! it's been forever and two days since the last time I was here. My homegirl Sydney said it the best that Twitter has been the culprit for the lack of motivation to blog for real because I guess is what Twitter is a micro-blog so instead of taking responsibility for slacking up lets just put it on Twitter lol. I got quite a bit to discuss from the rise of hoelike dudes, to basic girls and everything else in between so let's get started.

The summer of 2009 has flown by so fast August starts in 2 days, which is such a crazy concept for me to comprehend. I think as I get older the faster time gets. Because it seems like time has been accelerating since the time I turned 21. I called it the coming of age, half of me thought it was a catchy theme for my 21st birthday, but the other half of me knew that by turning 21 the life as I knew it was over. It was the true beginning for me as a man making his way through the world. Its been fun, insightful, and interesting to say the least. Learning about people, starting to know people better than they know themselves at some points. Realizing that most people aren't who they say they are. I can tell u that but you will never truly understand until you have experienced it first hand. Before it used to upset for lack of better words when I would see people perpetrating to be someone that isn't who they are. But I later learned that some people don't understand what my man Sidney Poitier said the best that, "you don't have to be someone else to be better than you are" I pride myself on being myself, I never try to be something that I am not. I rather be hated for what I am rather than being loved for who I am not. That must be a very depressing thing to realize at the end of the day that it's the fake persona that people like about u rather than the real u. A person may see something I do as ridiculous, wack, stupid, good, or even great. Though I am a person who does appreciate constructive feedback I can really can a damn what ur opinions they are like yesterdays everybody has one.

Something else that I have wanted to speak on are these fads i see going on out here in these streets. I am talking about women shaving their heads, dudes wearing skinny jeans that women can fit into, and a time where being a pansy for a lack of better words is okay. I remember a time when if u were a sap and/or lacking on the testosterone side was not a good thing by any means and u were gonna get no respect not from your comrades (your boys) or from the girls. Now all bets are off lames are pulling these chicks left and right watering the game down. Now I know i do sound like a hater, but let me go ahead and mention I am not a hater by no means its impossible. I give credit where credit is due I have always been like that. But with that said I was in the mall and i did not know that these skinny jeans that these guys be wearing are actually in womens sizes!!! I didn't even know that before, I thought they were mens jeans that just ran real tight kinda our European-American friends. But I picked up a pair of these jeans just out of curiosity and saw that they were a size 5!!! Now how can you call yourself a real man if u are squeezing yourselves into these jeans like a woman. Come on fellas lets leave the tight fitting pants for our women it looks far better on them. I hope that we don't continue down this road of role reversals.

I have been seeing it out here pretty heavy actually. To each is own has always been the saying with me, but nobody can explain to me how this is a okay concept. The only other person I have ever known to real dance on the line of womans clothing was Prince, and he is Prince he can do that i guess he has been doing that before I was ever born so that is his thing.

So with that said ya boi is signing off I am tired as I don't know what. Working in the office environment is very draining as it is in a physical environment. Dealing with clients with their issuse, and dealing with office stuff is quite tiring and can take a lot out of a person. More on that in the coming days. So until then.............

Holla,

Ya boi